That Hot Guy In The Movie
October 19, 2008I know I know, I should be more concerned about the fact that I have a presentation on Wednesday, a thesis due in a week and a half and that I still have more writing left to do. But I’m here at work on a Sunday, aren’t I? So I can afford to indulge myself a little with something useless.
Yesterday I saw this guy whom I used to think when I was younger was the hottest thing since sliced bread. Obviously, since I was younger I used to pretend that I didn’t even notice him and that he was no big deal, yadda yadda yadda. But of course inside, I would be a bundle of nerves and try to act all cool around him. (Note: he didn’t go to our high school or church, in case you’re all wondering who he was.) Anyway I didn’t see him again after that for many years so in my mind he remained this awesomely hot mysterious quiet
guy – a mental image that didn’t change.
Until yesterday when I saw him again and I barely even remembered him. I just saw him and thought, hmm, he looks familiar. And then I remembered who he was. And ladies and g’s, I barely noticed him, he was no longer the hottie he once was. Sigh, it didn’t even matter that he had a girlfriend on his arm. And of course, I had to be wearing my old faded jeans and my hair was in a million knots and I had my glasses on, but it seriously didn’t matter anymore. It was quite disappointing.
So that’s the second guy who I have seen again just recently after all those years of thinking they were oh so hot when it turns out, they’re really not all that great.
Either I was totally deluded when I was younger or guys that peaked in high school sort of drift away after a bit. Or maybe I’ve just grown up and I tend to favor ‘charisma’ more over ‘cute’. Either way, I still look like I’m twenty no matter how much I’ve tried to mature it up so maybe the notion of people growing hotter as they grow up is just in the movies.
Damn that Ugly Betty – she gets some serious game AND she works for Daniel Meade.
Tsk tsk – all in the movies.
And btw, is it wrong that I find Henry Chan from the Amazing Race Asia totally attractive?
im curious. who is he feli??? *sigh* i miss you feli.. we need to meet up..seriously!! sorry i couldn’t make it the last time
hey , pity that guy la , maybe its genetic he is losing hair , imagine what he will feel like ……
cheryl, Lol I figured that question would be coming and don’t worry, you don’t know him
lolo, I know I know, I’m sorry if it came across as tho I were dissing him but I truly wasn’t. I’m just describing him as I saw him is all, I apologize if it came across as insensitive, I sincerely have nothing against him. Thanks for your comment, though
Feli….Feli…How come I don’t know him??! Sigh..oh well
oh ok….im just stating that bcoz i dun have a choice but im starting to loose hair…..and i go thru so much of esteem problems….
cheryl, LOL, you know that is possible hehe but yes I am positive you didn’t know him, so really it’s ok
lolo, I was thinking about what you wrote and I normally wouldn’t edit myself but I realize I was being insensitive and it shouldn’t be a factor anyway. So I hope you accept the edition of my post with my apologies and I hope you know that you shouldn’t let the insensitive comments of people like me affect your self-esteem. It’s a terrible problem with society and goodness knows I’ve always been sensitive about my weight for the same reasons. Keep your chin up and do take care
Hugs!
but u dun have to worry about ur weight la , maybe u were slightly plump when u were in australia , but recently i see that u have lost so much of weight , if u have a secret do tell me , thanks
Hahaha, the secret is called Stress