Listening to: Lost in You – Chris Gaines
“There’s no more waiting”
Currently Reading: The Cutting Edge of Barney Thompson – Douglas Lindsay
I turned 22 a few days ago. It wasn’t so different from turning 21 but I can tell you that this has been one of the most interesting years of my young adult life. I will not bore you with a long list of examples or try to equate each with some deep abstract allegory or metaphor; firstly because I am not in the mood to do so and secondly because I think that it is not unnecesary – for this post anyway.
Suffice to say that it has been an eye-opening year in more ways than just one.
This was the first birthday of 22 birthdays in which I have been away from home, and being a girl born with a deeply resonating homing device, if you had told me even three years ago that this would be the case, I would have laughed in your face and then anxiously worried about it for the next three years.
However, grace being as it is, that little revelation was only revealed in due course, and props must be given to all my loved ones both here and from back home that made me feel so loved on my birthday, that though I did feel the faintly bitter sting of the absence of home, all of the messages and phone calls and presents and dinners and drinks helped cushion the blow.
And not just any cushion mind you - it’s like the GOSA GLÄNSA pillows from Ikea – extremely fluffy with 60% white goose down and 40% white goose feathers surrounded by 90% white goose down for a comfy surface and a wonderful outer surface of silk and cotton fabric… yeah.. this ain’t your ordinary metaphore, I’m giving you a promophore (a promotion and a metaphore). That’s how effective everyone was
Anyhoo, after some awesome Peking Duck with the Namegang chicks on Friday, the housemates and I paid a visit to the Boho bar on Saturday night, which is fabulous by the way. It has a carnival theme, and awesome decor, funky retro music, great chips and better dip, yummy waiters and bartenders who walk around in suspender belts, singlets and hats - it is not your average smoky bar filled with indecent leering men who spill beer on your hair and leave you wondering how much more insult you can take for being vertically challenged.
The night ended with a trip to PJ O’Brien’s where, get this, I have gotten in before without needing an ID, but the night after I turned 22, I needed to flash the bouncer with my international student card!! How’s that for a compliment
(and yes everybody I am taking it as one).
Anyway it was an awesome birthday and I got a little carried away with my shopping the other day and ended up buying a few funky print t-shirts one of which said: Dear Santa, define good.
Plus we’re going crabbing this weekend and then to the Barossa Valley on Sunday, hopefully we can meet up a few more times (poker night!!) before everyone leaves or gets busier towards the end of the year … and then I can look forward to seeing my rents and brother again, after almost a year!
I have to pack up my entire room, find buyers for my old text books and find a way to dispose of/give away/recycle all the shit I have accumulated over the three years I’ve been here. A herculean effort one of which I am not at all sure is humanly possible at the moment.
Then it’s graduation and I fly home for Christmas.
Shithouse - I am 22 and I have to grow up soon.
When am I going to find the time – or energy- to do that?